5 comments about Healing A Broken Heart: A Guided Journal Through the Four Seasons of Relationship Recovery.

1. I gave my sister this book after watching her go through 4 major break ups in about as many years. It was a great tool to help her process the repeating patterns. The writing is thorough, but has a gentle tone. The overall design is beautiful and nice to spend time with.



2. This is one of the best self-help books I've seen. It actually takes you through a process by which you can understand what happened in your relationship and get your thoughts and feelings out so you can move on. It makes you dig deep and think hard as you go back to the root of the problems that interfered with your relationship. The poetry used is a nice touch and the exercises very effective in helping one get to the grief that's left when your heart is broken. The technique the authors use could be applied to healing other emotional pains as well.



3. When my nearly 3 year relationship ended, I was surprisingly relieved- it had been going nowhere for quite some time. But even in the midst of my newfound freedom and happiness, I knew that I still needed to grieve and learn from my mistakes. This journal was a godsend to me. I didn't want to read an advice book since that was not what I was looking for. This journal allowed me to reflect upon what had happened and then look toward the future. The various anecdotes and poems were extremely helpful as well. This journal also fit well into my life; I am often quite busy, and it really allows you to do as little or as much as you want/need to at a time. I can honestly say that I am completely healed and loving life more now than ever after completing this book.



4. I'm really glad I bought this. It provides many thought-provoking questions and prompts. The book consists mostly of pages with a question at the top followed by blank lines for you to write. There are some poems, quotations and words of guidance, but it's not about the reading, it's about the writing, which I liked a lot.



5. THIS BOOK IS SO BEAUTIFUL AND JUST SO GREAT EVERY PERSON SHOULD HAVE A COPY!

3 comments about The Lover Within: Opening to Energy in Sexual Practice.

1. I read this book with a skeptical eye. After all, so many people talk about "energy" but don't teach anything useful.

   Henderson seems to be the exception. Her very clear exercises teach about energy, how it interacts with the body, how it defines our boundaries, and how it permits us to merge with others or to maintain a space of our own.

   The book was so good I sought her out. I learned genuinely useful and compassionate energy work from her, and each lesson made me realize how much of her knowledge she has put in this book. This is American Tantra, taught by a woman who knows it.




2. It is worthwhile to read *The Lover Within.* It is even more worthwhile to try one, two... or even all 76 practical exercises. Dr. Hendersons' kind guidance will lead you from one to the next refining and ripening of energetic experience...
   
   The beauty of Julie Henderson's language and her unusual way of expressing herself take the reader gently on the path of exploring the powerful exercises she describes. The abundant reminders of what to pay attention to and how, and the sure touch of Dr. Henderson personal experiences tempt you to try out what she is writing about.
   
   *The Lover Within* calls for rereading, unexpectedly, as your experience ripens. Each time, each approach, is surprising and new - a rediscovery as much as a rereading.



3. This book is an excellent how-to manual for working with your sexual energy. It might alter both how you think about love and sex and what you do in intimate practice. The focus is on neither manipulative technique nor personal history but on the process of energy itself. It provides exercises to be experienced alone or with a partner and offers instruction on how to move, collect, heighten, and share energy.

2 comments about Kama Sutra: A Pillow Book (Pillow Books).

1. This book is pocket size. There were drawings on every page, but they were not realisitic - most times the point of entry appeared to be at the female's belly button. Alot of them looked very similar. The text did not give details of the position only a hint at the idea of it. Not a good read or any good photos. I returned it.



2. I loved this little itty bitty book. It is Erotically charged and lavishly illustrated. It's well written and in a tasteful manner. This great and informative love making manual makes a great intimate gift for that special someone. My boyfriend gave it me and reading it was like an electrical charge. I couldn't wait for him to come home. It's a small book loaded with information that can be very useful for women who want to rock someone world. I loved it and I'm planning on buying a few for christmas to pass along to my girlfriends.

5 comments about Flogging: The Basics and Beyond (SMTech Educational).

1. In what promises to be a very exciting series, noted lifestyle presenter Joseph W. Bean has been enlisted to launch a series of instructional DVD/Book combinations that will provide safe and easy to follow instructions in BDSM play. The concept is simple: videotape a presentation in front of a studio audience, giving thorough and uncomplicated directions, and then transcribe the affair in a book that you can follow along while viewing the DVD in the privacy of your own home. The second volume in the DemLab series is "Flogging: The Basics and Beyond."
   
   Mr. Bean is an expert presenter and more than an expert when it comes to flogging. Having already written a book on the topic ("Flogging" published in 2000 and also locatable on Amazon), standing in front of an audience and a trio of cameramen is an obvious (and for Mr. Bean, casual) progression. His two attractive subjects allow him to demonstrate the fine art of wailing on your friends. The DVD itself is better than an hour in length, and the book is well apportioned with color pictures. In addition to the transcript of the demonstration itself, there are additional notations.
   
   Where this DemLab volume really stands out is the DVD presentation. The final 15 minutes during the flogging of Adam show that, when the chemistry is right, even "The Basics" can go farther and into deeper territory that you plan on. Suffice to say that things between Mr. Bean and Adam get intense, and the crowd certainly got more than it came for.
   
   With a Volume One utilizing Mr. Bean's skills in the mummification arena already available and future releases promising ropeplay, fireplay, spanking and more, the DemLab series already looks like an essential series in the making. All in all, Volumes One and Two are a great way to introduce yourself to some spicier aspects of interpersonal play, and good for the adult entertainment value.



2. I purchased this book in hopes of finding something that will educate new comers to the world of SM; Even in today's open world of information, this book/DVD is a rare find.
   
   When I recieved the book and DVD (if it is not clear this is a Book and DVD SET) I instant put in the DVD and sat down expecting a very dry tutorial; This was so far from the reality though. J.W. Bean is definately entertaining while getting across crusial information and safety tips. There is even a bit of world history (that I cross checked for accuracy) of where some of the flogging traditions origionate from I would recomend this set to anyone who is interested in flogging no matter their experience level.
   
   The book is a quick read but is really an over view of the DVD, which is nice to have, but do not just look at one or the other. However, I strongly suggest reviewing both the book and DVD.
   
   Play Safe.



3. I really enjoyed this DVD/Book combo. In my opinion, it's one of the better flogging information and how-to books out there because it's not like a boring instruction manual that uses big words and is hard to understand. Joseph W. Bean talks to you (the studio audience) in a way anyone can understand. He jokes around a bit, and is very detailed and informative. The book is basically a read-along for the DVD, but I suggest you read the book too, because it has a little more information than what Joseph says in the DVD.
   
   In the beginning, there is an introduction about Joseph W. Bean and safety tips about no-strike zones, ankles, bleeding, etc. On the DVD, it begins with Joseph going through what you need to know about flogging: What You're Doing (the scene you are creating, from painful punishment to sensual massage), The Body Itself (how the body reacts to stimuli), The Person Inside (knowing that bottoms can lie about their pain tolerance), The Tools At Hand (from novelty floggers to vests, spatulas, belts or pipe insulation), and Techniques (*demonstrations*).
   
   When Joseph gets into the Technique part of the DVD, he then brings out a [female] "willing victim" named Elorin. He explains the muscles in the back, and then begins to do a Soft flogging demonstration on her. He explains what he is doing throughout the demo. Then brings in a male volunteer named Adam, who has never been flogged before. Joseph then preceeds to "take him the whole way". There are many still frame photos in the book of the flogging from the DVD. After the demonstrations, there is a Q&A section that the studio audience is allowed to ask questions, that are also answered in the book. It also has a section in the book that explains the Tools used in the flogging demo.
   
   Overall, I think this is a great combo. I recommend this DVD/Book to everyone, from tops to bottoms, beginners to experts and everyone in between that is in the leat bit interested in the art of FLOGGING.



4. I won't repeat what the others have said. I agree with it all.
   
   I will instead say that I bought this book/DVD combo with the express purpose of learning how to do flogging safely, sanely, and with maximum enjoyment. My submissive loves a good flogging and I knew nothing about the techniques or practices. So I got this set.
   
   WOW. Not only was it informative in both safety issues and technique, it was entertaining, funny, and erotic. By the time I finished it (and watched it a couple more times) I felt I was ready to proceed.
   
   I bought a nice flogger and practiced on some stationary objects to get my aim and style down. Then I surprised my submissive with his first flogging at my hand. He was VERY impressed with my skills, and he's something of a connoisseur of the art. I have nothing but this book/DVD set and a bit of practice to thank for his compliments.
   
   If you want to add flogging to your playtime, this is an EXCELLENT place to start!



5. I thought this book was very good. Iam a beginner and have never done this. So it helped me out alot. My first play mate would also agree Im sure if asked. She enjoyed the flogging very much. The book goes along great with the DVD. A must buy for any new flogger out there.

5 comments about The Hookup Handbook: A Single Girl's Guide to Living It Up.

1. This book is ridiculous. I can't believe it ever got published--it's that poorly written. Please don't waste your money on this book!



2. This has to be the worst book I've ever attempted to read. I wasted $15 for nothing. This is not a "guide" to anything but a bunch of nonsense strategically arranged into silly little subtitled chapters with a sad attempt at using catchy humor! I made it to page 40, flipped through the rest, and then threw it right in the trash feeling like I wish I could somehow get my money back.



3. I read this book. It increased my closing ratio tenfold. Thanks girls !!



4. This is without a doubt one of the funniest books I've ever read. You have to go into reading something like this expecting laughs, not advice. The authors tell stories in a smart and satirical way that many people can relate to. If you are looking for a lighthearted, fun read this is the book for you. If you are looking for some hardcore relationship advice you should work on getting a life.



5. I really enjoyed reading this book, I read it in less than a week, is very entertaining and easy to read. I am sure that when you finish reading it your perspective about hookups will change, your love for yourself will increase. It's a GREAT fun book.

4 comments about What Turns Us On.

1. A very honest, VERY Sexy, really fun look at the things that arouse us. Great for inspiring fantasies, opening converation between partners, and, well, turning the reader on! Sexy fun alone or read with someone you love!



2. This book, is the ultimate reality book about sex and how different people view it. I liked the part about romance as I did about "I see you" voyerism. It made me hot one moment, then all tingly about the perserverence of love.



3. The Finzes' tribute to Nancy Friday's groundbreaking and endlessly fascinating series is entertaining, but clearly these "real confessions" have had more than a little editorial help from these writers of "dozens of erotic novels." Even their clumsy attempts to provide some psychological context for the stories is straight from Friday's outline.

   Allegedly taken from respondents to newspaper ads inviting people to discuss their fantasies, they read more like excerpts from Penthouse Forum than the voices of the contributors themselves. Make no mistake, some of the material is hot, and a mainstream audience may find their boundaries stretched by some of the voyeurism, exhibitionism, and group sex, but if you're looking for authenticity, read My Secret Garden or Women on Top.




4. I really don't believe that these are all real stories. That said, they are still sexy and entertaining. It was a fun read. Some stories seemed to drag on before they got to the "good" parts, however.

4 comments about Wonder: Moments that Keep You Falling in Love with Life.

1. I love the book A Touch of Wonder, but after looking at the table of contents for this book, Wonder: Moments that Keep you Falling in Love with Life, I realized that this is the identical book as A Touch of Wonder. ....it just has a different date and a bit different title on it. I was hoping this would be a new book by Arthur Gordon. I'm very disappointed since he's passed away that there won't be anymore books by him.



2. Once again Gordon has found an apt title for his inspirational book. It should be in everyone's library.



3. I read this book in 1974 when it was titled A Touch Of Wonder. I am, to this day, using the things I read in it. It was a life changing book in some ways. Not practicing "the deadly art of non-living" has produced some wonderful walking-in-the-rain type memories. I highly recommend this book to anyone who would like to see the wonder in life.



4. I read this book when I was in high school and always tried to keep a copy handy over the years, but found I had given my last one away (again) when looking for it recently. I was very delighted to find a hard cover version, although as someone else mentioned, this book was previously called "A Touch of Wonder". The book can be read easily in one long afternoon or read randomly one chapter at a time if you so choose.
   
   I have had my own 'touch of wonder' moments since first having read this book, and I throughly believe to some degree I owe the recognition of most of them to Mr. Gordon. I would have liked to have met him at some point, but was quite disappointed to hear he had passed away. Don't miss this opportunity to read Mr. Gordon's recollective stories of defining or unforgettable moments in his life - they will help you stop and recognize them in your own life as well. Happy reading!

5 comments about How to Satisfy A Man Every Time.

1. I can't say enough bad things about this book. The author directly says that ALL men WILL cheat if they are not COMPLETELY satisfied sexually. And it's their wives' fault! I thought there would be a lot of sexual techniques to learn in here. No! She recommended role-playing, so sex would be like being with different women. The whole point of this book... no matter what a wife does for her husband (cooks, cleans, takes care of the children, etc) it will NEVER be good enough because he needs to have lots of sexual excitement or he WILL find it elsewhere. Love has nothing to do with it. At all. Save yourself the money and find a better book. The Guide to Gettign It On is fantastic. SO is Pure Sex by Anne Hooper.



2. I purchased this book out of curiousity when I was about 16, to learn the stuff about sex that they don't say in health class. I have had this book since then. I couldn't get through it then and I still can't now everytime I try to read this book I get an urge to strangle the author within the first few pages and she isn't talking about anything I didn't know as a virgin at 16. I had read better books then and I I am now almost 30, everytime I try to give this book a second chance I still can't get through it. I'll save you the money, here's what the book is about, you a woman busy with running the house, the kids and your own life should you be so bold as to attempt to have one, must submit and drop everything so that you can satisfy your man whenever he wants or he will cheat or leave you and according to Ms. Hayden, it's all your fault. Meanwhile, in my life I learned before i hit 25 that a guy doesn't need a reason to cheat if he's a cheater. I hope her book "How to Satisfy a Woman Everytime, and Have Her Beg For More," told the man that if he can't handle a strong woman who can do it all without her he should grow up. There are better books out there, I have read them. How To Make Love To A Man by Alexander Penny, 203 Ways to Drive A Man Wild In Bed, The Kama Surta.... any book but this one.



3. I not only don't agree with a lot of what is said in this book based upon personal experience, but I also learned nothing. It is assuming that women are still in the stone age of count the cracks on the wall sex and this is not true of today's typical woman and yet adultery is still ramapant! Therefore boring sex is not the only reason that a man can go astray and honestly is not the main one. Sex outside the marriage is often a symptom of a greater problem. I wish it were so simple, just have exciting sex and your marriage will be affair proof. But sadly, it is not.



4. Noticed how all the women rate this book poorly and men are giving it a good rating? That's because these women still don't get it. They are in denial. Women desire their men and men desire sex. If you don't give it up, then yes, there is a good chance he will get it somewhere else. Pay attention! Read the book...take the advice. If your relationship doesn't turn around, then he has already cheated on you and someone else is making your man happy.



5. I got to say this ranks as one of the worst books I have ever picked up! It isn't worth your money so save it. I expected the book to be full of ideas, tips, techniques to add to my bedroom adventures. Instead I got a book that holds a wife responsible for a husband cheating! Get over it, as an adult in a committed relationship each partner is responsible for his or her own actions. This book is actually demeaning not only to women but men as well. It makes men sound like complete idiots that go through life letting their [...] lead the way. The generalizations in this book are ridiculous and frankly I don't know how it got published!
   
   If you are looking for a book that will provide some spicy ideas check out TICKLE HIS PICKLE if you want a selection of new positions try Ride 'Em Cowgirl! Sex Position Secrets For Better Bucking

5 comments about Baby Boomer Bachelorette: How to Have Sex at Least Once More Before You Die.

1. Single baby-boomers re-entering the world of over-forty dating will find Patsy Stagner's Baby Boom Bachelorette a unique guide charting the different world of midlife dating. From assessing 'baggage' and whom to date to locating bachelors and getting noticed, Stagner provides many candid tips based on practical real-world experience.



2. I was very impressed with this author's straight-forward and sincere, warm and funny tone. This is one of the best books I've read for those of us who've found ourselves in the "over the (fill in the blank)" category of dating singles. Stagner has some of the best advice I've read on the subject. She is brave enough to go against conventional wisdom with tips like not always telling the truth (about age, for example) and why we don't really need self-esteem to succeed in the dating scene. Buy it for yourself, buy it for a friend or your newly-divorced sister. Even the married can benefit by the book's candid (and did I say funny?) wisdom.



3. A tell it like it is fun read full of wit and wisdom.



4. "What You Learn. That it's never too late to have a happy dating (or sex) life - but this guide addresses much more, urging those in the post-40 set to alter their perspectives on getting older and embrace the process with humor and heart. With solid advice on getting back in the dating game (and even playing it better than before), as well as useful tips for looking your best and cultivating a positive attitude."
   
   -- Alexa Joy Sherman, "Ages of Enlightenment," SHAPE May 2005



5. This is one of the best books I've read on middle-aged internet dating. The author's tone and style are delightful and it's full of great information.

2 comments about Dare to Connect: Reaching Out in Romance, Friendship, and the Workplace.

1. I didn't think "Dare TO Connect" was quite as good as Susan Jeffers' book "Feel the Fear". But she gave me many ideas to think about in communicating with others. The main idea of the book is to understand yourself and reach out to others. It is also a spiritual book about our Higher Self. It has given me a better understanding of how to treat others as part of God's plan. We are all here for each other.



2. This is one of the most important books I have ever read, and I know it has been so for many of my friends. I say this because I started a weekly discussion group centered around this book and many people would tell me how profoundly grateful they were to be exposed to the concepts here.

   I don't think it's fair to try to compare this book to her earlier "Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway" because that book is about overcoming fears that inhibit you, and this one is about new attitudes to make your social life flourish. There are a few parallels, but the books only compliment eachother.

   The most important concept here for me was that of "everbody training" - the idea that social situations become more rewarding and less stressful if, instead of trying to create external successes, you focus on creating positive situations for everyone around you. Instead of pressuring yourself to get a woman's phone number at a party (getting something for yourself), make a point of helping her to have a good time there, even if it isn't with you (giving to the community). The neat thing about this is that it becomes easier to make contact with new people AND makes you a more desirable friend at the same time.

   The author does NOT present gimmicks or strategies that only work for confident people in unusual situations: it ALL applies to everyone and helps build your confidence about yourself and your abilities in social situations. One caution: don't think you can read this book and suddenly go from being a shy nerd to a confident person with dozens of friends overnight! It takes time, practice and may need to be integrated into one's self-improvement efforts.